FOR EVERY GIRL.... a must read.......

:When there is no option left but to die..."she must have done something shameless or she may be characterless.....that's why she committed a suicide....."

Well now, let me tell you what its like being a girl in this very modernised society of India where the thinking is getting shorter and narrower with clothes......
So now here starts her story.....
well being born in a reputed family is a matter of glory....
celebrations are held and sweets are distributed to people on the way.....
but the inner core of mother knows and dreads her future one day....
Brought up with the best,
her mother made her to outshine, better than the rest,
build up with confidence,
taught the right and wrong
and how to hold up against wrong with defiance....
Everything was going well,her aims high
And one day , reality dawned upon her .
Her wings were cut before reaching the sky..
She got a chance, a confrontation with the truth..
Women are toys at hands of men,so all you have to do is protect yourself in your youth..
But soon ,she reconciled with the fact and was all the more ready to face the world..
Coz,as told by her mother,she was a strong and stubborn girl..
Her fearless attitude troubled the mother,and mother's trouble was intolerable to the girl
Don't laugh out loud,don't stare at anyone in the eye,don't drive fast,..it gives a wrong signal...

From then onwards.things started changing..
Her father,who once never stopped her,started restricting her..
Her mother,whom she thought would always understand her
Started condemning her...

Now her brother was needed if she wanted to go out after 7pm..
Now, she was expected to be beside her mom in the kitchen, every now and then..
She was given a new advice on how to handle domestic things everyday...
And from capris to jeans and tops to kurtis ..she was asked to mend her ways..

She was taught to be the respect of the family..
Found talking to boys..datz her biggest sin..
In this scenario,she dared to love.
To choose someone all of the above..
But this was not acceptable on her part.
And these people.. started throwing towards her.their speech darts..

Her parents were hurt and she could never tolerate that..
She left everything and tried her best to comfort them..
Her new motive was to keep her parents happy and contended..
And life taught her a new thing..
To fake a smile all day ..and cry to herself when the day ended..
This became her routine and family her priority..
She was happy that they were happy except some arguments now and then..
Just one thing consoled her..
She was successful in her mission ,when everything she had thought would come to an end..
Hiding all her fears,her anxieties,and her state of mind,
She put on a smile...
when she was asked to leave her ambition and find a career nearby..the society would approve of...
When everyone left...she cried in solace for a while...

This society never freed her of their stares and assumptions..
Wether it was about her clothes or when she was out with her friends..
Although she didn't give a shit to filthy people,but it mattered to her parents a large extent..
She stopped going out and once again gave up to the society's end..

Talking about her love,tears filled her eyes and she remembered what she most dreads..
And then sometimes ,she broke in front of her friends..

The only asset she was left with was her parents unconditional love..
And she loved them back..in every way she could have done..

A part of her dead.. somewhere she was living..
But when they blamed her again..it was just the end..
She had gone out alone and that was because.
She was the one ,the society wouldn't approve of..

With a burnt soul and a broken heart..
She finally gave up and decided to depart...

The warrior in her was defeated for she was tired now..
She did not want anything anymore..
No smile ,..no career ..no dreams..

All she wanted was PEACE...
and the search ended at death...

"She must have been characterless,or might have done something shameful..
That's why she commited a suicide.."

WELL DEAR SOCIETY..
YES!!!SHE WAS SHAMELESS..

CONGRATS...ONE MORE DEATH AT YOUR HANDS..A FEATHER MORE IN YOUR CAP....!

THE famous quote read.... she finally left him and the world blamed her.. but what she never told them was... he changed ..I didn't

THE famous quote read....
she finally left him and the world blamed her..
but what she never told them was...
he changed ..I didn't..

but sometimes...it'z the other way around..
check this out..

She changed..he didn't..
She left him..he didn't..
She choked him to death....he didn't ..
She was rude to him..he didn't say a word..

FOR THE WORLD...
He cried ..She didn't..
He suffered ..she didn't..
He begged to God for me..she didn't..
He lost his future..she didn't..

But what they didn't know was..
she suffered, she cried, she fought,
..as bravely as she could
but...she LOST...
She lost him...
she lost herself after loosing him...
she is no more herself inside....
she is a suffering him inside...

And what she didn't do was showing this damn world
all this...!!she just dosen't want to...
After all this....
                               SHE SURVIVED........HE DIDN'T..

#SHRUTI

Things change.. times change But within no time.. PEOPLE ALSO change....SOMETHING WE ALL CAN RELATE TO..

Things change..
times change..
situations drastically change...
But within no time..
PEOPLE ALSO change..

change is nothing so uncommon..
it'S just the law of nature..
I know ..but why do people change after keeping promises.
why do they go away just like that..
how can they go away just like that!!

Things continue ..but changed
we accept them..but changed
we somehow move on..but changed
but then  one day............
....all that has happened..comes through you once again..
and you stand at that point..looking both forward  and backward..

YOU see that..the change i mean..it's been through so much
how people were and how they are now..
how you were and what has become of u..
..two different and opposite sides..

I guess this is life...change and only change..
but I really fail to understand..
you crave to be into the past..
you cry...you stop ...reassemble the new you..
the  stronger you.....
AND CONTINUE..... 

#SHRUTI

Kyuki...Tuh pyar hai kisi aur ka aur tujhe chahta koi aur hai.....FOR ALL THE LOVERS AROUND....!!!

Tuh pyaar hai kisi aur ka par tujhe chahta koi aur hai

Hzaro baar apne lfzo se kha tha tere dil ki dhdkno ko
Hai kasam tere pyar ki
Aenge tujhe lene laal baggi aur safed ghode pe
 aur le jaenge chaar pahiyo wali gaadi mein

Pr hame kya pta tha ki kismat aisa rang badlegi
 ki tere hatho ki mehndi to laal hogi pr naam kisi aur ka hoga
 kyuki .Tuh pyar hai kisi aur ka aur tujhe chahta koi aur hai.....

Ladd pda khuda se jung mai bahut badii
voh jung hi mujhko mehngi pdii
Jeet gya khuda se par haar gya khud se
Laakh koshisho ke baad tu meri hoke mujhe naa mili
Kyuki tuh pyaar hai kisi aur ka aur tujhe chahta koi aur hai.......

Marta rha roz mai taaki tujhe jeeta hua dekh saku
Tere chehre ki muskaan se apne dil ka dard to saaf kr saku
Jb tu thi meri mai tha naa khud ka
Ab jo tu nahi toh kaise rahu mai khud ka
Kyuki tuh pyaar h kisi aur ka tujh chahta koi aur hai.................

Yaad hai abhi bhi wo raate
Jb subah tak naa khatam hoti thi teri baate
Aaya tha tujhe dekhne mai aakhiri baar
Hath me leke apne guldsto se bhara hath
Phul the gulaab ke jo dia krta tha mai bde pyaar se
Us dinn ghodi ki baggi leke aaya tha mai
aur gaadi me lekr gya tha tujhe
AAKHIR USS BHAGWAAN KO BHI MERI SUN NI HI PADHI..
KYOKI.....TU PYAAR HAI SIRF MERA.....

ROZ TUTNA...ROZ BAN NA.. roz bikhar ke phir judna.......................

ROZ  TUTNA...ROZ BAN NA..

roz bikhar ke phir judna...

yeh toh dastoor sa ban gaya hai....

roz subah ek nayi ummeed ke saath uthna...

roz shaam uss ummeed ko tut te hue dekhna..

yeh toh dastoor sa ban gaya hai........

roz raat sone ka man karna,

roz raat sone se darr jaana,

roz  unhi bure khwaabon ka aana,

yeh toh dastoor sa ban gaya hai.........

roz subah apni zindagi ko badalne ki thhan na,

roz, shaam hote-hote asliyat ko maan lena,

yeh toh dastoor sa ban gaya hai...........

roz apne aap ko samajhne ki koshish karna,

phir khud hi khud me ulajh jaana,

yeh toh dastoor sa ban gaya hai...........

roz hasna...aur sirf hasna..

roz bikhar ke phir judna....

yeh toh dastoor sa ban gaya hai...

   

#SHRUTI

tu jee lega mere bagair ....PAR TERE BAGAIR..MUJHE JEENA HI NAHIN...THIS WILL DEFINITELY FIND YOU IN TEARS..READ TILL THE END...

This is something i found on fb...the first two lines were taken from there..
and  extended to a full fledged poem......hope u guyz like it....

LE HO GAYA FAISLA, KUCH KEHNA HI NAHI..
TU JEELE MERE BAGAIR , MUJHE JEENA HI NAHIN...

HE- jo bhi tune  kiya..jo bhi maine samjha..
       shayad bhagwan ko yahi manzoor tha..
      lekin  voh tera badal jaana ..chal voh bhi sahi..
       tu jeele mere bagair...mujhe jeena hi nahi...

      voh bhi kya din the...voh bhi kya rateen..
       jab subah se lekar shaam teri saubat me guzarti thi..
      mujhe aaj  bhi yaad hain voh pal voh baateen....
      aur aaj ye aalam hai ki hum ek dusre ko jaante bhi nahin..
      tu jeele mere bagair ..mujhe jeena hi nahi....

       aisi bhi kya majbooriyan hui , jo chali gayi muje chod kar..
       aaj bhi yahi  sochta hun..khada hu vahin..
       khaab dil me dafn ,labon pe muskurahat lekar..
       tu jeele mere bagair...muje jeena hi nahin...

       Iss duniya se toh tu haar gayi., par khud se toh mat haar..
       ye vaada raha milenge kahi na kahin..
       bas tu iss haar se badal na jaana ye kehkar....
       tu jeele mere bagair..muje jeena hi nahin...

       maine tere har rang se pyaar kiya tha..mujhe pta hai..
       ki tu kya hai aur kya nahin..
       apne aap ko iss kadar pathar dil bhi mat bana...
       ki mai bhi sochne ko majboor ho jaun....
        'tu jee rahi hai mere bagair..toh mujhe jeena hi nahin..

       majbooriyon ne baandhi jo bediyaan...
       voh bhi waqt par khulengi...par abhi nahin...
       mukkaddar  me jo hoga voh dekh lenge....
       mil gaye toh accha....
       varna tu mjhe bhoolegi nahi...
       aur mai tujhe bhool paunga nahin....
       khair,..tabtak mai saanse toh lunga..par...
       tu jeele mere bagair,,mujhe jeena hi  nahin..

       'dekh! sun meri baat..agar tu raat bhar royi toh...
       mai bhi bikhar jaunga ..vahin ke vahin...
       toot jaega mujme jo bacha hai voh...
       phir tu chahe jiye na jiye...mujhe jeena hi nahin...

SHE- 'agar mai roun nahin toh bata kya karun...
          jaha se bhaagne ki koshish kar rahi hun...aaj bhi khadi hun vahin..
          yahi sochti hun...
          kaise tera naam apni rroh se mita doon..
          kaise unn palon ko bhula doon..
          kaise unn yaadon ko jaala dun..
          kaise karun kuch aisa ki tera naamon nishaan apne dil se mita doon..
          chal ..ab alvida..
          tu jeele mere bagair...mujhe jeena hi nahin...
 
          bas ek baar tujhe jeena sikha doon mere bina...
          phir chali jaungi kahin..
          kyonki upar se toh acchi hun..
          par andar se kitna joojh rahi hun..shayad tujhe andaaza bhi nahin...
          alvida!....kyonki ab mujhe pata hai..
          tu jee lega mere bagair ..
          PAR TERE BAGAIR..MUJHE JEENA HI NAHIN..

          #SHRUTI
         

WRITTEN ON THESE WALLS..... ARE THE STORIES THAT I CAN'T EXPLAIN... .I LEAVE MY HEART OPEN..AND IT STAYS HERE EMPTY FOR DAYS.........

EVERYONE  has that one corner of heart ....
with those untold stories....
the unleashed secrets.....
some things that were never told...never brought up..
some subsided fears of hearts..
some buried desires.,..those longings that were never fulfilled..
those fears...which ever came up..would tear you apart.

some struggles that never came to an end..and probably never will..
some dreams having their coffins in the backyard of your heart..
some emotions,some feelings,...and that too..strange ones..
which never made it to the surface..or rather you never allowed them to..
you deadly feared..that if they ever will..then......................

you fight,you loose,you understand,you accept.......
but again.you fight,..you loose..
but.you CHANGE.....
INTO A PERSON UNFAMILIAR TO YOU......

#SHRUTI

DAD........!!!!-YOUR GUIDING HAND ON MY SHOULDER ....WILL REMAIN WITH ME FOREVER.........LOVE YOU..!!!

My dad my superhero,unke samne sab hai zero...
But how to express my love for him,
i just don't know,
My dad, my superhero.

He does everything for everybody
but doesn't even care for himself
He is a true god in a man's body,
i love you dad,more than i know,
my dad my superhero,

He is the most caring husband,the most loving dad,
the best son in the world & the best bro.
And how does he do all such roles so perfectly,I just don't know,
My dad,my SUPERHERO.

You love & care so much for me
And fulfill all my wishes too
On this auspicious day,
I promise I will,whatever you want me to do.
I love you dad,more that you know
My dad,my superhero.

On your birthday I wish you god's blessings,
From me,your family and siblings,
My dad, I love you more than I know
My dad, my SUPERHERO.....

#SHRUTI

WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE....IT'S JUST THE END.....REMEMBER.....everything will be OK.......TRUST ME....IT WILL......!!!

EVERYTHING will be okay in the end........

this is life.....and it has to go.........

there are mistakes done........

there are apologies given...

rather-some given....some pending....

some really awaited for........

some mistakes really felt deep inside..

some hoped to be understood.....

but known the impossible task...

some wanting forgiveness...

some hearts broken....

some distances increased...

some parted....

some near and yet too far....

but you know....why,when,what,where,how.....

these questions stick to every mind......

but.......just give some TIME....

time heals every wound.....

it had...it has..and always will.......

Be strengthfull...be happy and be hopefull,...........

I know it's damn hard.. and really difficult too.......

but you know what..........

the dark nights will always mend.....

and...every thing will be okay in the end..........

YOU JUST NEED TO SMILE.........................................⧭⧭⧭

#SHRUTI

we all must have suffered the loss of our loved ones one time or other in life.................that feeling that comes........is just unbearable.......

People come and people die everyday....but we do hardly care......
but when someone close to us LEAVES........
we are left with nothing , .....but DESPAIR.......

Aaj chand ke pass .sirf ek hi taara hai..........
voh , vo hai jise maine khoya hai...........
aaj shayad log kahen ki mai bhul chuki hun......
par koi dil se toh puche...uss par kya beeti hai...

uss taare ko dekhkar sirf aapki yaad aati hai....
aur voh ek baat mre dil ko khaye jaati hai.........
bas yahi.....ki mai kuch nahi kar paayi.....
kuch aur waqt saath nahi bita saki......

pata nahi..ek alag sa khalipan hai...
ek ajeeb si khali jagah...
jo itne waqt me bhi bhar nahi paai..aur
shayad na kabhi bhar paaegi.........

#SHRUTI

Introduction ...to an awesome blog

Hey guys.............welcome.....

this blog will surely get  into a connection with yourself and the life you are living...........most of us these days are leading a dull and monotonous life..full of stress , depressions and what not.

we have forgotten to take out some time and think about WHAT ARE WE ACTUALLY DOING!!

so ...get hooked up with this blog and enjoy........your friend.

SHRUTI.